Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Basic Embroidery


My Grandmother does gorgeous embroidery work (isn't she beautiful?). Growing up, I loved the towels my mom had with different fruit embroidered on given her by my grandmother, so when I got older I asked for a set for Christmas. Now that I have my own kitchen, I love my fancy fruit towels hanging from my oven door:
This past summer when we were visiting my grandparents, my grandma had the chance to tell me the story of how she learned to embroider, and then showed me a few simple stitches so that that I could do it as well. I was so excited to learn, especially from her, since her embroidery is what I envied all growing up. When she was little, about six or seven, she was out of school for a length of time for health reasons. Her Aunt Alice was a school teacher, and would come over and help her keep up with her studies. As something fun to do while she stayed in bed, her aunt taught her how to embroider. And from those lessons, came this:
Thanks Grandma for sharing your talents with me!

I'm not a good instructor, but here's a link if you want to try one of the stitches she taught me. And I'll post the results of my current project shortly, and you can decide whether I picked up my lessons well :o)
http://inaminuteago.com/stitchdict/stitch/stem.html

Monday, March 2, 2009

Family Moments Monday: Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone


I think it is good to have interests that are all your own. It would be boring if everyone was good at exactly the same things--there would be no variety. Coming into a new relationship and eventually marriage, it has been fun to be introduced to new things. My husband has introduced me to an amazing world of classical music, and I have tried to interest him (with more or less success) in my world of literature. And even though some activities like knitting are just for me, I think it is important to occasionally go out on a limb and do something together that HE really likes to do, or that YOU really love.

One of those things for us when we were dating was video games. My husband grew up with various consoles and different computer games--they were a big part of his childhood and a way he connected with his brothers. I, on the other hand, grew up with books . . . yeah I was a little nerd. So when we started dating and I realized that some of his free time would be taken up by gaming of some variety, I took him up on an offer that I'm sure he thought I would refuse: to play with him.

So we played Warcraft together. And Age of Mythology. Sometimes his roommates would even join the LAN parties with us. And you know what? I actually had fun. Not that I sit down and play computer games on my own time, but I think it meant a lot that I would sit down and do something with him that he really liked doing.

On his part, my husband has made an effort to do activities that I enjoy. He even went so far as to try yoga with me . . . which was HUGE for him. He even offered to watch Emma with me on my birthday (probably the movie he hates most in this world, apart from the A&E Pride and Prejudice, only because it is considerably longer). But trying new things, whether it is playing catch with a baseball (new for me) or fly fishing (new for him) has strengthened our family and opened up new worlds of activities that we like to do together.

As a footnote, one of our favorite family memories is getting Randy's parents to come lazer tagging. If you know them, you can imagine how funny it would be . . . and the best part: they had a great time!

Family Moments Monday is hosted by Melissa at Motherhood for Dummies

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Giving Back: Tap Project


Living where I do, I feel very blessed. I may complain from time to time about living in "poverty," (my husband is a full time student until next August) but in actuality I live a very privileged life. I never go without food, I have a warm, comfortable apartment, and as much clean water as I could want. I have struggled for a long time trying to come up with ways in which I can make the world a better place. I know there are so many people out there without the luxuries I enjoy, and I feel so strongly that it is my obligation to serve as much as I can. But knowing and feeling horrible that there are innocent children dying around the world from poor sanitation and nutrition is one thing; knowing what to do is another.

I have admired UNICEF for many years, and the work they do on behalf of children around the world. After I graduated from University I looked into getting a job with them, but you need at least a masters degree in order to qualify, and at this stage in my life I can't go back for more school. A little while ago I was surfing around the web and started reading some articles on the UNICEF website, and discovered that they have really great opportunities for volunteer work, and all kinds of support to get you started. From little things, like trick-or-treating for UNICEF (a great way to help your kids learn the value of giving back) to buying Christmas cards that benefit children . . . there are kits and pamphlets all online for you to find something that fits you.

This month is world water month, trying to raise awareness to the shortage of safe, clean drinking water. About 4,200 children die every day as a result of water related illness--all of which could be prevented. The Tap project was organized by UNICEF to raise money in order to provide sustainable wells for communities in need throughout the world, as well as educate teachers on proper sanitation practices. Restaurants partner with UNICEF to encourage their patrons to donate $1 for the water served at tables for free. With one dollar, UNICEF can provide one child with clean water for 40 days--which is so much.

There are several ways you can donate.
If you go to tapproject.org, you can look up restaurants in your area that are participating. Then, during water week go out to eat. Go with your family, or take a friend. Take your husband on a date! Then donate the dollar at your table.
If you are not inclined to eat out, or don't have the time/money--you can just text "TAP" to UNICEF (864233) to make a $5 donation.

If you want to be more involved, you can help recruit restaurants in your area. You have until March 8 to sign one up.

This project has made me more aware of what I can do, and at the very least more thankful for the basic necessities that I very often take forgranted. I hope the next time you go to the sink to rinse a dish or get a drink, you'll be thankful too.

Saturday, February 28, 2009

Recipe: Teryaki Peanut Sauce With Vegetables

This is one of my favorite quick meals. I combined a few sauce recipes, tweaked some things, and came up with this one day for dinner. I serve it over steamed rice.

Ingredients:

1TB oil
1/2 sweet onion (scallions are also yummy)
1/4 c. peanuts
1 can dole pinapple, juice reserved
1 large carrot chopped or julienne
1 cup brown sugar
1/2 cup soy sauce
1/4 cup peanut butter
1 tsp. ginger (or fresh grated is fabulous)

In a large skillet, heat oil on medium high. Add onion and saute until tender, about 2 minutes. Add peanuts and carrot, and cook for another five minutes. In a separate bowl, combine the brown sugar, soy sauce, ginger and peanut butter--mix until sugar is dissolved. Turn heat to low, add the sugar mixture and drained pineapple, and simmer for 10 minutes. Add reserved pineapple juice as needed for the consistency you want. Serve over rice and enjoy!

Friday, February 27, 2009

Provident Living: Cloth Diapers

Cloth diapers have come a long way since the bulky folds and pins and plastic covers our moms used on us. I had heard tell that this was so, but didn't have much reason to take interest until I was about ready to have my baby . . . and I started counting up the cost that this little munchkin was going to put us back. Totally worth it mind you, but when there is a huge addition to your finances, you start to rethink things a bit. So I did some investigating. Lucky for me I was on bed rest, so I had LOTS of time on my hands. I spent about a week reading blogs and websites and user reviews for different products, pricing each one, and comparing it to the disposable alternatives. I looked at Costco diapers and Walmart's prices . . . and gulped. Especially when I read how many diapers a baby went through per day. Yowza!!

I also didn't want to kill myself. This was my first baby, and if I was going to be in tears over folding a million diapers and pinning and washing etc, it just plain wasn't worth it. But I read a lot of good reviews on the BumGenius 3.0, and the price was right, so I decided to give it a shot.

It has gone really well for us. The diapers are really gentle on Wes' sensitive skin, and he doesn't have any problems with rash like he did with the disposables I tried (I was given a lot as gifts). Plus, they are so easy! They look pretty much like disposables, so Randy hasn't had any problems with them. They are easy to wash, and they are saving us by my estimate close to $600 this year alone. Next year, it will be close to $1000. The great feature to these is that they adjust for different sizes, from newborn to 25lbs, so you don't have to keep buying different sizes. You just snap or unsnap depending on the size. Great also if you have 2 kids in diapers at once.

I also switched over to cloth wipes, which is saving me tons as well. You can buy fancy flannel wipes online, but I just got out my rotary cutter and some extra flannel I had lying around, zigzagged the edges, and voila! Cloth wipes. There are a million recipes on the internet for wipe solution, but here is the one I use:

1 1/2 cups water
2TB baby oil
2TB baby wash

It does mean a little more laundry, but the trade off for me is well worth it. So far, we are really happy with our setup!

Here are the three sizes:

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Book Reviews

These stretch back all the way to when I was on bed rest, and had lots more time for reading. Nowadays, I try to balance a book on the boppy while I nurse, but the going is a little slower :o)

The Squatter and the Don is one of the first novels written by a Mexican American woman. Her style reminds me a lot of George Elliot, especially per Daniel Deronda where the prose is interjected by this kind of meta-narrative of philosophy or history. In this case, I feel she doesn't do it quite as seamlessly as Elliot because the characters seem rather flat, and more puppets for the point she is trying to make. The novel from a purely historical interest perspective did more for me than from a literature perspective to be honest, although I have a hard time extricating the history from the literature and vice versa: nobody writes in a vacuum. I knew the rough outline of what happened when California was annexed into the US and the resultant cultural displacement of the Mexican people, but this novel filled in a lot of gaps and provided a different perspective which I appreciated. I think that she definitely deserves a place in the canon, because while this wasn't my favorite novel for character development or outstanding, imaginative prose, De Burton has significant things to say and she does so with intelligence and grace.

Fifth Business is a novel I actually started when I took a Canadian Lit course a few years ago (I was tricked into taking the class because the course was titled "ethnic literature" or something else misleading. It was a very disappointing class . . . both in material and instruction). True confession: never finished the book for the class but still got an A. Anyway, I picked up the book to give it another go because frankly I was too ill with the baby to make a trip to the library and I didn't have anything else to read. I must say that I did enjoy this novel better the second time around, although I still had a few issues with some of the author's characterizations. The feminist in me protested at the way he portrayed the women in his novel: there was too much angel/whore dichotomy in some (the narrator actually creates a "saint" out of one) and in general they are given very little autonomy or understanding. Davies does explore some interesting themes--such as the nature of our roles in this life (whether you are the main character of the "play" or merely fifth business-a kind of enabler role) as well as the nature of miracles and personal relationships. There are some charming characters as well as very imaginative ones . . . but the overall feel I got from this book was dissatisfaction. Perhaps I didn't appreciate this book fully because of my reading strategies: I have a hard time not reading from a feminist/Marxist perspective. If you read from either a Freudian or Jungian perspective, you may enjoy it more. Or if you read from just a readers response . . . you may have a better shot. If anyone out there disagrees with me, I would be interested to hear your perspective on the novel. Maybe I'm just missing something, and should give it yet another shot. Although I have a few other hundred novels in my queue I think I'd rather tackle first . . .

In this novel, I was not disappointed. Alice Walker does an outstanding job of creating complex, interesting, and sympathetic characters that grow and struggle . . . and sometimes overcome. This book had me thinking, and feeling, and I couldn't put it down. I guess this isn't such a big surprise since this was the genre I became most interested in while I was studying at University. There are psychological questions that come into play--from the many faceted ways the main character responds to the abuse she experienced, to the way Black masculinity is portrayed, to the nature of love and how we love. I felt that this book deserves the praise it has received . . . and transcends the movie that was made about it. Although Oprah was pretty funny for once. There is so much more that I could say about this book, but with the time and energy and mental capacity I have at this moment I couldn't do it justice (ask me again in a few months when my baby is sleeping through the night) so I will leave it at this-- Good Read.

While I was on bed rest, my mom let me borrow a copy of Left to Tell to pass some of the tedium on the couch. This was one case where I recommend skipping the forward and just reading the book. In my personal opinion the guru who wrote the forward was kind of weird and creepy . . . but maybe that was just the terbutaline talking. Anyway--Left to Tell is a non-fiction account of a survivor of the genocide that happened in Rwanda during the ethnic wars between the Hutus and the Tutsis. She is a woman of great faith who relies completely on her belief in God to get her through the terror she experienced and the subsequent loss. I had mixed feelings after reading the book. I wasn't as profoundly moved perhaps as many of the people I have heard praise the book. I do have deep admiration for her moral courage and her emotional strength, as well as the humanitarian work and goodwill she promotes. Spirituality is a difficult thing to convey in words, because it is such an intensely personal experience, so it can be difficult to translate--especially when not writing in your native language. Still, it was a good book, and I do recommend it.

Jonathan Rosen is one of my favorite authors--and guess what Randy, he's a white male! (My husband doesn't seem to think I can appreciate an author unless they are, as he puts it, "ethnically oppressed.") Rosen is a Jewish writer from New York, who really hasn't written as much as I would like :o). He does have a fairly new book out that is non-fiction about birdwatching, and if anyone could get me to read a book about birdwatching, it is Rosen. Joy Comes in the Morning is his first novel, and while I didn't enjoy it quite as much as Eve's Apple, I still think it is a very good work. Joy weaves together the experiences of an ailing man who is a holocaust survivor but attempts suicide to prevent living like a vegetable after a stroke, his son and a female rabbi. His characters are real, his prose is engaging, and I actually didn't resent the way he portrayed his female main character. What I think I appreciated most about this novel was the conversation about faith, and what it means to live "religiously" and still authentically. While I disagreed with some of the theological premises of some of the characters (particularly in the areas of premarital sex), I found the conversation itself worthwhile. This was another book I couldn't put down, and made me feel inspired in my own writing--which is far too sparse these days.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

A Bumper Pad and a Weird Dad

Here's a little something extra for the Grandmas. Mom--thanks so much for the cute bumper pad. Here is your video evidence of its supreme cute-factor. Also, hope you all enjoy the funny Daddy-son time I caught . . . I don't know where Randy gets it from. Darlene, do you have any ideas?